See this thread: http://www.vmware.com/community/click.jspa?searchID=2718957&messageID=542118
So, I got all that working as was able to ssh into my guest RHEL 4 guest through the NAT port 8889. Cool!
But once the guest gets busy, there seems to be a performance issue. I run a make with -j 4 under an emacs which is using X to talk to the host server. Response gets very very bad until the compile finishes.
Alternatively, I can use ssh from the guest console to make listen on the host:
ssh -R 22:localhost:8887 host
And then ssh into this port from the host:
ssh localhost -p 8887
Now this make under emacs works much better. You wouldn't think so since there is more than one trip over an ssh encrypted connection. But there it is.
I suspect this due to some issue in the vm itself, which needs to service both the interrupts of the guest and the nat forwarding.
Anyway, this might be the sort of issue the beta is meant to expose.