Do you have another XP SP3 system to try the RDP from? (just to see if it has anything to do with connections from a specific OS type)
It doesn't sound like something specific to VMware, and I haven't personally run into this before.
Regards,
Jonathan
B.Sc., RHCT, VMware vExpert 2009
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