You don't need AMD-V/RVI enabled unless you want to run a VM within the VM.
Make sure of the following:
If that still doesn't give you good Aero, you may want to post your vmx, vmware.log, dxdiag results of both host and VM (EDIT: attaching text files will do instead of screenshots).
EDIT: Technically, Aero requires DX9 but the hardware compatibility set to 12 just makes sure everything is in sync with versions amongst software, drivers, and VM version.