This started to happen to me as well, and it never happened before.
I am also using Geforce Shadowplay Instant Replays, but i've always been using it, never changed anything and it's still the same version as well. Also i'm using desktop recording so i don't think it's an issue with GFE trying pick a capture target.
The error happened when i switched from the Home tab to my VM tab, it happened twice on the exact same scenario.
Probably a recent Windows Update or something that is causing this, hopefully this gets enough attention to get it fixed.
Details:
Windows 10 21H2, fully updated as well
VMWare 16.2.1 (this also happened before i updated, i was running 16.1.2 or something, and i've been running this version for months without problems)
AMD R7 3800X on an ASUS PRIME X370 Pro, latest BIOS, 32 GB of RAM.
Haven't updated my GPU driver in a while either, running 472.12.
Nothing has changed hardware and software wise on my computer, so i suspect a Windows Update issue.
EDIT2: Actually, it happens constantly when switching tabs, on multiple VMs, VMWare is absolutely unusable for me now. Same error "VERIFY bora\vmx\main\hostWin32.c:569" every time.
Disabling Shadowplay did NOT fix the problem at all either.