No my test server in the office only has 32 gigs of ram which actually performs great.
The trouble server has 192 gigs of ram (just realized my original post was wrong and updated it) and only runs the 10 virtual desktops and there is a second R630 server that runs the Server 2012 instances with the view, vcenter, domain controller...etc...
I just got done talking with the dell and they said there are several firmware updates that have been know to help with bad performance issues.
I am going to run the updates tonight and see if that fixes the issue.
Thanks for all the suggestions and I will let you know the outcome.
Thanks,
J