Just to make sure, that ESXi node is in maintenance mode?
And the HA, provided the ESXi node is part of a cluster, is set to allow patching, and you set the ClusterDisableHighAvailability switch.
Did you check the vpxd logs?
Any additional info in there?
Update: I just saw you used the ClusterDisableHighAvailability switch
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