OK that's true, I thought at first it was working but I see now it's not.
I still want to know HOW to disable the message. It's a domain policy, fine. But WHY is VMWare reporting it every time I login to vCenter, it's quite annoying. Probably can't turn it off per-se this is VMware attempt at full transparency because they ASSUME that since they are tied to Active Directory we want to SEE ALL AD messages pertaining to login, but that is false and it should still be preference.
I login in Windows RDP all day long and none of them complain my password will expire in 30 days, 29 days, 28 days.. they are members of domain, I get a warning at 10 days (which is what I expect) not 30 days out!