ohh never mind, i found them in the hostd.log...but what does this mean....
Accepted password for user root from 127.0.0.1
2013-04-08T17:42:07.522Z [6BD0FB90 info 'Vimsvc'] [Auth]: User root
2013-04-08T17:42:07.522Z [6BD0FB90 info 'ha-eventmgr'] Event 52469 : User root@127.0.0.1 logged in
2013-04-08T17:42:07.568Z [6C043B90 error 'VmwareCLI'] GetPrimitiveParam: Cannot find (help)
2013-04-08T17:42:07.569Z [6C043B90 info 'VmwareCLI'] Dispatch list
2013-04-08T17:42:07.588Z [6C043B90 info 'VmwareCLI'] Dispatch list done
2013-04-08T17:42:07.588Z [6C043B90 verbose 'VmwareCLI'] Result (type vim.EsxCLI.system.process.list.UserWorld[]) (wsdl ArrayOfVimEsxCLIsystemprocesslistUserWorld) (kind 19)
2013-04-08T17:42:07.774Z [6BE64B90 verbose 'Default'] CloseSession called for session id=5213ec19-cec7-83df-fc17-686f79bdc291
2013-04-08T17:42:07.775Z [6BE64B90 info 'ha-eventmgr'] Event 52470 : User root logged out
2013-04-08T17:42:17.518Z [6BD62B90 verbose 'Ticket 52 b5 5f cb f3 45 4b fa-2f 51 94 02 c9 62 c7 8e'] Ticket invalidated
2013-04-08T17:42:17.984Z [6C043B90 verbose 'Proxysvc Req46910'] New proxy client SSL(TCP(local=10.129.29.18:443, peer=10.106.6.59:53282))
2013-04-08T17:42:17.998Z [6BD0FB90 verbose 'Locale' opID=HB-host-13360@7746-c15d4b98-74] Default resource used for 'counter.virtualDisk.commandsAborted.label' expected in module 'perf'.
2013-04-08T17:42:17.999Z [6BD0FB90 verbose 'Locale' opID=HB-host-13360@7746-c15d4b98-74] Default resource used for 'counter.virtualDisk.commandsAborted.summary' expected in module 'perf'.
2013-04-08T17:42:17.999Z [6BD0FB90 verbose 'Locale' opID=HB-host-13360@7746-c15d4b98-74] Default resource used for 'counter.virtualDisk.busResets.label' expected in module 'perf'.
2013-04-08T17:42:17.999Z [6BD0FB90 verbose 'Locale' opID=HB-host-13360@7746-c15d4b98-74] Default resource used for 'counter.virtualDisk.busResets.summary' expected in module 'perf'.
2013-04-08T17:42:18.019Z [6C043B90 verbose 'ha-license-manager' opID=HB-host-13360@7746-c15d4b98-74] Load: Loading existing file: /etc/vmware/license.cfg
2013-04-08T17:42:18.033Z [6C043B90 verbose 'Default' opID=HB-host-13360@7746-c15d4b98-74] ha-license-manager:Validate -> Valid license detected for "VMware ESX Server 5.0" (lastError=0, desc.IsValid:Yes)
2013-04-08T17:42:33.457Z [6BE64B90 verbose 'SoapAdapter'] Responded to service state request
2013-04-08T17:42:54.747Z [6BD62B90 verbose 'Proxysvc Req46911'] New proxy client SSL(TCP(local=127.0.0.1:443, peer=127.0.0.1:52154))
2013-04-08T17:42:54.765Z [6BDE3B90 verbose 'Ticket 52 76 4e c3 e2 b9 a2 5e-13 35 48 dc 22 42 31 c9'] Ticket issued for root
2013-04-08T17:42:54.768Z [6B974B90 verbose 'Ticket 52 76 4e c3 e2 b9 a2 5e-13 35 48 dc 22 42 31 c9'] Ticket used