I have to say all these problems you are having are exactly the start I had to this challenge. Nvidia cards will get as far as loading up in device manager but will always have the code 10 yelow...
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I have to say all these problems you are having are exactly the start I had to this challenge. Nvidia cards will get as far as loading up in device manager but will always have the code 10 yelow exclamation mark as far as my experience goes. ATI cards need some fine tunning of the bios settings and will still not work in all scenarios, I have 2 machines with multiple x16 slots where only 1 will work with VGA pass thru. I then have an x58 board which has had 5 cards passed through no problems (4 x16 slots and an x1). I am at 4.1 for my main system, over 2 years down and going strong as an HTPC, Asterisk, VPN, Sandbox, telecomuting, IP TV Server, NAS and home automation system. I have tried all the others on my test machines and have had the same issues as others with USB on 5.1 so I am at 5.0 for those. Thinking of adding a router VM aswell. I beleive it is easier to add the network driver to a running machine so if possible fit a supported NIC for install then once ESXi is running you can add the driver for the Realtek and then remove (or pass through) the intel NIC. Dont upgrade to hardware version above 8 if using 5.5 as versions 9 and 10 require the (not free) web interface.