I have tried many things and have not come up with a solution.  Thanks for those suggestions they did not help.

I am working with a VMWare tech support person.  I actually sent them this thread because he claimed they did not know about it.

This is a really serious issue and I rely on the VM for work and it is making my life pretty miserable.

When I do Google Hangouts is when it gets really bad to the point that the display driver stops working and it drops me down to a tiny

box in the center of the screen.  Eventually it gets so bad that it terminates my login.  This clearly is Big Sur related because I was running 

fine before it.