I can't really help you with that, I'm no developer and especially no VMWare (something) developer. :smileywink:
The links above were just found by looking around a bit. From my understanding your driver would need an extension in vmkernel, which would mean that you build your own VMWare version.
I guess that you have to be at least a VMWare partner (e.g. 'TAP' - Technology Alliance Partner) to get access to further resources for development.
That's why you do not get any answers/code samples here or in other discussion groups.
vm-help forums is a good resource for driver development of unsupported NIC or storage controller hardware, but not for generally kernel-side unsupported devices (like tty/COM port).