hi bryan,
6.0.2 won't makes our iphone runs, it just won't happen. It does recognize the iphone , just sometimes, but can not sync. my advise is just forget about vmware for doing this sync task, try dual boot for now, until vmware has a fix for this issue. i tried every possible humanly possible, but still doesn't work, and it seems vmware has no response regarding this issue, seems like they want to cover up their stink ass rather than giving a response like " I am sorry, it hasn'tbeen fix for 6 months" . One word "irresponsible" !
The bad thing is you bought already that software, since i am pretty pissed off about them not giving any response regarding this matter, i just downloaded the 6.0.2 for free from torrent. It's illegal, but i am sure thats the most worthed way knowing their attitude toward the issue.
Take care for now
GL