Things that happens and is good to be remembered.
We got a lot of ping losses when we do vmotion in our cisco and hp switch enviroment (15 to 40 ping losses) . We changed the "notify switches to yes" in the switch on every esx server.
1) is your vMotion network a private physical switch/VLAN only used by ESX servers, or is this on a public network.
2) Are you routing the vMotion between two networks.
3) Please post output of:
esxcfg-vmknics -l
esxcfg-route -l
esxcfg-nics -l
vmkping vMotionIPofTargetHost
4) review /var/log/vmkernel for any errors regarding the vMotion.
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